To say something nice about yourself, this is the hardest thing in the world for people to do. They'd rather take their clothes off.

magazine (“This woman is not a feminist”)[citation needed] Nancy Friday has predicated her career on the belief that feminism and appreciation of men are not mutually exclusive concepts. Nice Girl”—of being “bombarded from birth with messages about what a ‘good woman’ is.

” Her writings argue that women have often been reared under an ideal of womanhood which was outdated and restrictive and largely unrepresentative of many women’s true inner lives and that openness about women’s hidden lives could help free women to truly feel able to enjoy being themselves. “Nancy Friday’s successful fantasy revelations (My Secret Garden Forbidden Flowers) have seen her placed among the feminist erotic pioneers.