Perfect love casts out fear. Where there is love there are no demands, no expectations, no dependency. I do not demand that you make me happy; my happiness does not lie in you. If you were to leave me, I will not feel sorry for myself; I enjoy your company immensely, but I do not cling.

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Awareness Image1990. The first two were collections of stories and the last a collection of exercises similar to "Sadhana". Work
De Mello authored numerous spiritual books and conducted courses based upon his work.

The few talks which he allowed to be filmed such as "A Rediscovery of Life" and "A Way to God for Today" have inspired many viewers and audiences since being released; and have been viewed by hundreds of thousands of TV watchers throughout the United States Canada and Central America; in colleges universities Newman centers and communities. He traveled to many countries to study and later to teach most notably Spain and the United States. An internationally acclaimed spiritual guide writer and public speaker de Mello hosted many spiritual conferences.