Whenever we seek to avoid the responsibility for our own behavior, we do so by attempting to give that responsibility to some other individual or organization or entity. But this means we then give away our power to that entity.

By doing so we enhance the joy of pleasure. In refusing to suffer the pain of sacrifice we fail to truly grow. These are techniques of suffering means by which we experience the pain of problems in such a way as to work through them and solve them successfully learning and growing in the process.