In the gay (Catholic) community, it would seem, the maxim is: love the sin and love the sinner, but hate anyone who calls it a sin or him a sinner.

In 1960 he was ordained a Lutheran minister later serving as pastor of St. Louis Missouri. He is the originator of "Neuhaus's Law" which states that "Where orthodoxy is optional orthodoxy will sooner or later be proscribed".

Richard John Neuhaus (May 14 1936 – January 8 2009) was a prominent Christian cleric (first as a Lutheran pastor and later as a Roman Catholic priest) and writer. Born in Canada Neuhaus moved to the United States where he became a naturalized United States citizen. He was a staunch defender of the Roman Catholic Church's teachings on abortion and other life issues and an unofficial advisor of President George W.