Pity Confessions

I (f/20) took advantage of a stranger a few years ago. I was 16 when it happened and I was in town shopping with my best friend. While walking down the street, a guy around 25/30 came up to us and asked us in broken English if we would like to have some coffee with him and that it would be his treat. My bff was against it at first, but I convinced her. It was free coffee after all!
So, we went to a cáfe and tried to have a conversation with him. He was from some dirt poor country or something like that and his English was really terrible. What we found out was that he wanted to go to university and bring his family to him (they were still in his country of origin) and that he migrated because he thought that he could have a better life here. He had no friends and apparently had a hard time making friends and connections.
We asked him why he wanted to have coffee with us and I am not sure, but I think he thought we were cute or something.
We tried to talk to him for like half an hour or more, but it was more or less pointless. His English was really really bad. Why come to our country if you are not able to speak the language???
Anyway... He went to the restroom eventually and we decided to bolt. He wanted to pay for our drinks anyway, so I guess that is not a problem...
I talked to my bff about it today and she said that we behaved like total dickheads back then. I never thought about it before she brought it up today.. Well, I guess I am feeling kind of bad about it now.
So, forgive me?

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My fiance and I have been together for quite some time; 8+ years. As the years have gone by of course the number of times we have sex has declined. Its gotten to the point to where I am aroused and ilI bring it up and she just shows no interest. Sometimes I voice my opinion about how we dont have sex and it bugs the hell out of me that right after i say something she miracuously some how wants to have sex. I consider this to be 'pity sex' or 'sympathy sex' ill even say that i dont want her sympathy sex and she swears up and down that its not. I need both mens and womens point of view.

#annoying